blobbes' banalities

Anticlimax

2006-11-09T22:19:00.000+08:00

For a moment there,
You had me at "hi".
Breath held.
Moment passed.
Deflated.

What's Love Got To Do With It?

2006-11-08T01:46:00.000+08:00

It's an act of will
You choose
And then you live with it.

Songbird.

2006-07-28T23:12:00.000+08:00

I know why crazy people sing:
To keep from hearing the voices in their heads.
I know why I sing all the time.

Confounded

2006-07-18T00:34:00.000+08:00

Square peg, round hole.
Doesn't seem to fit right.
Frustration sets in.

Turmoil Theory

2006-06-13T22:22:00.000+08:00

If the flutter of a butterfly's wings can create a cataclysmic chain of events thousands of miles away, then why do some efforts seem so futile? Why is it that one can feel so powerless, too ineffectual to stem the tide of change?

Strangely Quiet

2006-05-01T10:56:00.000+08:00

It was a strange dream.

I was travelling alone on a bus, like a Greyhound coach. It was late, way past midnight. Other than an occasional murmur, my fellow passengers were quiet. Through the rain-speckled bus window, I could see the shuttered shopfronts of what looked like the centre of a small town. The bus wound its way through the silent streets before finally pulling up outside a darkened office in a narrow lane.

Silently, everyone disembarked, and within minutes, had scattered in various directions. I grabbed my duffle bag from the coach’s belly and trudged down the lane towards the main road. There was a light drizzle. The tarmac was glistening in the light from the streetlamps. At the end of the lane, there was a police cordon. The policeman on duty waved me past, uninterested.

It was as if I had arrived in an unfamiliar town and was at a loose end. I saw a group of four people who had been on the bus. Judging from the muted chatter and soft laughter, the four, three men and one woman, seemed to be friends. I trailed them to a late-night pub, and walked in behind them.

At this point, the dream morphed. I was no longer in the dream myself. I felt like I was watching a movie. I felt like a voyeur. The group stayed in the pub for an hour or so, before two of the men got up from their bar stools and left. The remaining man and woman who appeared to be a couple remained seated. They were deep in conversation, although it was mostly the woman who did the talking. She appeared to ask him a series of questions, in urgent whispers. He kept quiet, until, finally, she lapsed into silence too. Pause. In tacit agreement, the two got up and walked out the door, leaving their drinks sitting half-drunk on the bar counter.

Outside the pub, the couple acted out a mini-drama. She tried to leave, in tears. He threw his cigarette on the ground and grabbed her arm. They scuffled for a moment, before he let her go. He watched her receding back for a while, before turning to go too.

Fast forward. Change perspective. I am reading the newspapers. A report catches my eye - suicide bombing at a late-night party, hosted in some posh downtown residence. The perpetrator was a man. The twist in the story? A woman had rushed into the party, seconds before the explosives went off. The woman was his wife.

Time

2006-05-01T10:09:00.000+08:00

5 hours.
It was more than that.
It was priority.
It was primacy.
The import was not lost.
And so the tables are turned.

Clean Cut (Not)

2006-05-01T00:18:00.000+08:00

Cuts like a knife?
Only one with a jagged edge
That rips to leave
A myriad of tears

Mental Gymnastics for Intellectual Sluts

2006-04-02T12:44:00.000+08:00

Years ago I read a short story – I believe it was by Woody Allen – that described an escort service with a twist. The business provided for hire, not nubile young females for mindless sex, but women with post-graduate degrees from Vassar and Radcliffe for cerebrally stimulating conversations. What a mind-blowing idea! It sure gives new meaning to that old chestnut of a phrase, “My wife doesn’t understand me”, eh? Today, I imagine such intellectual infidelities are facilitated, like pornography, wife-swapping and casual sex, by the proliferation of the Internet and its multiple communication channels, and why not? Why should the Internet privilege one set of proclivities over another? :)

Take any one idea,
Mere fodder for
The intellectual mill.
Twist and turn,
Watch it squirm.
Tease it out ad infinitum.
Pinion down for the kill,
Nail it at the climax.

CUT TO: Scene with post-discourse cigarette.

Good Teachers

2006-04-02T11:45:00.000+08:00

“We teach who we are.” – Parker Palmer

A good teacher is not one who was born a saint.
What does one who is perfect understand about
The temptations of the flesh,
The tumultuousness of the soul,
The weaknesses of the mind?

A good teacher is not one who has never made any mistakes.
What does one who succeeds all the time understand about
The humiliation of failure,
The agony of defeat,
The bleakness of a life gone wrong?

A good teacher is not one who has never experienced
Life in all its vicious vicissitude,
The helplessness of being disempowered,
The anger of being marginalized,
The vulnerability of being exposed.

Even one who has struggled and overcome is not
A good teacher yet,
Not without being able to say,
With equanimity,
“It doesn’t mean I’m better than you.”

The more I read, the more I understand.
The more I teach, the more I learn.
The more I live, the more I grow.

A good teacher is one who
Can see in all clarity,
Can say in all humility,
Can share in all sincerity,
This is who I was,
Who I still am.

I have been an idiot, sometimes.
I have been a fool, often.
I have been impetuous, unthinking, selfish,
Careless, partisan, opinionated,
Silly, proud, lazy,
Just like you.
I am, but I am learning.
Together, we grow.

To the Self Righteous

2006-03-27T23:19:00.000+08:00

When I was 19, my friends and I went on a backpacking tour of Europe. In Florence, Italy, we met a group of American girls at our youth hostel. They hated everything about Europe, particularly the weather. We were puzzled. It was late April (or early May, I can’t quite remember). Temperatures ranged from 12 to 18 degrees in the day. It was cold for us, yes, but then we were used to tropical weather. Perhaps these girls were from Hawaii or some tropical part of the good ol’ US of A. Then we noticed that, to a T, they all wore skimpy tank tops and shorts, all the time. Surely that was not appropriate attire for Europe in spring? Little wonder they were cold. We had to ask. They whined, “But it was 100 degrees (Fahrenheit, or 38 degree Celsius) back home in Indianapolis…” Duh.

Moral of the story:

If you live life as if yours is the only perspective that matters, as if your reality is the only truth, then you are destined to make a fool of yourself sometime, somewhere, somehow.

OR

If you must be a frog in a well, at least keep your big mouth shut.

(HM's take on it: don't talk to bimbos.)

A Totally Random Thought

2006-03-27T17:55:00.000+08:00

As we stride around
Purposeful in our busy lives
Prance around
Giddyheaded in our excitement
Are we mindful of the
Ants we step on?

No Smoke Without Fire

2006-03-22T01:26:00.000+08:00

No, this isn't about you, my Narnian friends, lol.

Both are guilty of the same,
The pot calling the kettle black.
If I knocked both their heads together,
Would I get sparks?
And if I did,
What would ignite?
Tempting, to say the least.

Brain Pain

2006-03-22T01:15:00.000+08:00

My head hurts
Not like yours perhaps
But from too many words
Flooding in,
Too many ideas
Rushing to get out
The exit door.
A little help, puh-lease...

Food for Thought

2006-03-09T03:44:00.000+08:00

It's amazing what one can come up with in the middle of the night, when insomnia strikes. Thanks, wzb, for the push.

Intention or action –
Which matters more?
Does the failure to act
On an ill intention
Absolve one from sin?
Is a good intention sufficient
When its consequence goes awry?
If we do it for all the wrong reasons,
Does it still count?
Do the ends ever really justify the means?

Relativity I

2006-03-01T01:39:00.000+08:00

I have always liked this one.

To realise the value of one year,
Ask a student who has failed in his exam.

To realise the value of one month,
Ask the mother who has given birth to a premature baby.

To realise the value of one week,
Ask the editor of a weekly magazine.

To realise the value of one hour,
Ask two friends who are eagerly waiting to meet.

To realise the value of one minute,
Ask the person who missed the train.

To realise the value of one second,
Ask the person who survived an accident.

To realise the value of one millisecond,
Ask the person who missed the gold medal in the Olympics.

by anonymous

Relativity II

2006-03-01T01:36:00.000+08:00

What value do you place
On friendship, I wonder
When you favour
Simpering attentions over
Honest answers
Fleeting flattery over
Faith well kept.

Dross over gold –
Why settle for less?

Pearls before swine
I am tempted to say.

Go On, Jump

2006-02-18T13:41:00.000+08:00

Don’t you just hate it when people do this…

A: Hey I really really need your help. Could you help me with this?

B: (thinks to herself):

Oh dear how do I help her with this?
I'm already struggling to finish my work
And I have already agreed to help X with that.
But this is not the first time she's asked me for help
And I've turned her down.
She must think I'm very unhelpful.
If only she had asked me a little earlier.
Wait, let me think - there must some way I can help her...

B frowns and turns away.

A (thinks to herself):

She is unwilling to help.
I’ve seen her help others. Why not me?
It must mean she doesn’t like me.
This means she only helps those she likes – she’s not a nice person after all!

A: Never mind forget it. (walks away) Bitch…

Sometimes it doesn’t end there…

B: Oh hey remember that favour you asked me for? Yeah, I can do it…

A (thinks to herself):

She’s not a nice person – she only helps those she likes.
Why is she offering to help now?
Oh I know – she must want something from me.
This means she only helps those she likes or those who can help her – she’s REALLY a bitch.
If she’s a bitch, I don’t have to feel bad about taking advantage of her.

A: Wah, you’re so nice. Why don’t you help me with this other thing as well? You’re so good at these things.

Now, who’s the bitch?

Moral of the story: Look, before you leap… to a bad conclusion.

Small Mercies

2006-02-11T20:03:00.000+08:00

That other silence, I explained
To you.
You could have called.
You didn't.
Then again you noticed,
At least.

Too Much of a Good Thing

2006-02-11T19:41:00.000+08:00

The silence explained...

What luxury -
The space to mull over
Thesis
Antithesis
Synthesis,
The time to dialogue
To debate, to discourse
With oneself, with others.
By the end of each day
No words remain to be said.

Goodbye

2006-01-20T04:59:00.000+08:00

In the end
Our trains arrived at the same time
And left almost simultaneously.
How serendipitous
For me –
No looking back longingly
At your receding figure on the platform
No peering pensively at your train
Fast fading into the darkness.
We may yet chance upon each other again
Another day, another platform
Our paths may cross once more
Another lifetime
It matters not
Our time has past.
In the end
Your train was bound for a new destination.
Mine, headed for home

Love-All

2006-01-19T04:13:00.000+08:00

Game, Set, Match…
It’s over.
The winner takes it all,
The losers - there were
Three in all.
One felt sick
It wasn’t me.
I tell you this because,
How it loves company,
Misery.

Yes, k, these things take time
But for now
Nothing
Not even a twinge
Unexpectedly.
Equilibrium reached
For now.

What's Yours?

2006-01-18T21:19:00.000+08:00

From the Quizilla website:
Your Daemon, as in the Philip Pullman series His Dark Materials, is a physical manifestation of part of your soul - it is your intimate companion, and comforter, and it is that little voice inside your head. Its gender is usually the opposite of yours, although some people have a daemon of the same sex. It always takes the form of an animal.

My Daemon!

RAVEN - Your daemon may be a member of the crow
family. You are intelligent, observant, and
gregarious. Just as a crow or raven picks shiny
objects out of the dirt, you pick up tidbits of
information or ideas and store them away. You
have a good sense of humour, but sometimes lose
patience with people who are antipathic to your
nature. You are swift to alert others when you
find the truth, and you have no tolerance for
those who would hide it.

HM's Daemon, hehe!

CAT - your daemon may be a cat if you are
independent and comfort loving. You follow your
heart and do what you want to do - no matter
what others think. You have a strong sense of
your own worth, and an inner dignity. You may
be loving and generous in one moment, and then
lash out at someone in the next. You have as
many moods as there are colours in a rainbow,
and you wear them all brilliantly. You always
know what you want right now - although in five
minutes you may change your mind and set your
sights elsewhere. You like to do things with
style and flair. When someone else orders you to do something, do
you feel an unholy urge to do exactly the
opposite? That just might be your inner daemon
talking.

What Is Your Daemon?
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Magnanimity

2005-12-29T06:15:00.000+08:00

Forgive them.
No longer children,
Not yet men/women,
They know not what they do.

Happy Christmas

2005-12-23T21:28:00.000+08:00

you're only as happy as you want to be.
be happy,
i remind myself
and you.

An Honest Whine

2005-12-19T11:58:00.000+08:00

In the words of my vocabulary-challenged students, competition sucks, but collaboration isn’t an option in this case – there can only be one winner – so it seems I must compete. Like any sore loser, I hate competing when I don’t stand a chance of winning. What competition – the odds have been stacked against me from Day 1. Of course, more likely than not, the competition exists only in my mind; I doubt if anyone else involved considers me a contestant, let alone a worthy one. Chances are, I was ruled ineligible from the start anyway, by accident of birth no less (I wave my fist in indignation).

So why can’t I leave well enough alone and walk away into the sunset, like the proverbial hero in cowboy westerns? I have after all lived my life thus far NOT playing by the rules, opting out of the rat race to slave in a bookstore when everyone else was climbing the corporate ladder, quitting the arts scene just when it was becoming an acceptable way to earn a living and kinder to the pocket too, choosing to teach blood-sucking monsters (and loving it!) when others were leaving the scene in droves. Hmmm, so maybe I am perverse. Where logic dictates that I walk away, I walk the other way…

Perhaps I should do what entrepreneurs do and redefine the competition, you know, rise above the situation, rewrite the rules, create demand where there is none. In simple terms, this translates into: Can’t be the boyfriend? Be the chauffeur, the shoulder to cry on, the joker. Can’t be the girlfriend? Be the gift-picker, the stylist, the agony aunt. And, specially for fag hags or fruit flies (terms I use with great affection), can’t be the girlfriend? (Of course not, don’t be silly!) Be the shopping sister, the mahjong kaki, the bitching partner.

With luck, one becomes Apple, only 2.5% of market share worldwide (for personal computers) but the way sexier option. The desired effect one wants to create is the wistful look, the “I wish had the money/opportunity/guts/fill-in-appropriate-factor to choose you” feeling. To achieve this, one must avoid the “spare tire” syndrome at all costs. Unfortunately, in the drive to create demand, one can overcompensate by being too easily available. God forbid one ends up becoming a generic PC, far too easily replaceable by another Sim Lim Square lookalike.

So how does one acquire the allure and mystique of an iBook, an iPOD? If I succeed, I’ll tell you, my readers. Your advice is most welcome in the meantime. Peace out lol.

Invasion of the Body Snatcher(s)

2005-12-15T22:57:00.000+08:00

I am not myself...

Help!
Brain taken over by
Flights of fantasy,
Flickering images looped
Like a movie on endless playback.

Momentary respite:
Ho Chi Minh,
City of a million motorbikes –
Peace ironically.
Days filled with
Never-ending hustle and bustle
Lungs saturated with
Overwhelming exhaust fumes
Ears inundated by
Incessant noise
Eyes swamped by
Perpetual movement of
A burgeoning cityscape,
Not a moment
or a braincell to spare
At least till night fell.

Back home once again
Helpless against
The memories
Enthralled by
Illicit moments
Surreptitiously yet
Shamelessly stolen.

Once again
Exhausted by
Sweet intoxication.

Madness.

Incoherence

2005-12-01T12:36:00.000+08:00

I'm beginning to hear voices lol...

Some of us think holding on makes us strong
but sometimes it is letting go.
- Herman Hesse

Love is never lost.
If not reciprocated, it will flow back
and soften and purify the heart.
– Washington Irving

There is always some madness in love.
But there is also always some reason in madness.
–Friedrich Nietzsche

Love is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
– H. L. Mencken

Love is an exploding cigar we willingly smoke.
– Lynda Barry

To be brave is to love someone unconditionally,
without expecting anything in return. To just give.
That takes courage, because we don't want to fall
on our faces or leave ourselves open to hurt.
– Madonna

Fitting last words, how apt...

Love: a grave mental disease.
– Plato

The Phantom Speaks, in Prose

2005-11-27T01:00:00.000+08:00

“I gave you my music
Made your song take wing
And now, how you've
Repaid me, denied me
And betrayed me.
He was bound to love you
When he heard you sing.”

From the musical, The Phantom of the Opera, by Andrew Lloyd Webber. For the full libretto, check this out. For the synopsis based on the novel by Gaston Leroux, this is the Wikipedia link.

Curses, cried the Phantom.
Am I so repulsive,
The monster fronting the man?
Who says I have no right
To take the Beauty
Even if I’m the Beast?

Damn it, spat the Phantom.
Why am I drawn to talent
Like a moth to a burning flame?
Why should I mould you, shape you
With the power that lies in my hands
So that insipid fools like him
Can dry your tears?

Don’t pity me, snarled the Phantom.
You know you belong to me.
Deny me if you must
But look me in the face,
This face!
I will not fade away.
I claim my rightful place as the Other.

He is Raoul to her Christine
And here I reprise my role
For the umpteenth time.
My life as a musical cliché is
A repetitive motif,
Sadly, nay, pathetically so.

On Thin Ice

2005-11-27T00:06:00.000+08:00

A 44-year old man and his 9-year old daughter died on an ice-skating trip at a small pond in Cedar Grove, Wisconsin. She fell through the ice and he fell in while trying to rescue her. The snow was falling.

"There is no such thing as safe ice.” – Sheriff’s Deputy Jim Opgenorth

And yet I choose to skate
Believing as Emerson did
That safety is in the speed.
Faster and faster I go
Till it all becomes a blur.
The snow falls -
A blanket of prettiness
Obscures what cautionary signs there are.
I wrap myself
In a cocoon of falsehoods
Blithely ignoring impending doom
Till I fall through, with a crash.

Words

2005-11-23T02:46:00.000+08:00

As defined in the dictionary
They only say so much.

“I don’t like you.”
You scare me.
I scare myself.
What will others say?

“Don’t go.”
I don’t want to be alone here
I’ve forgotten what it is like.

“I love you.”
Right now at least.
I don’t love anyone else.

They could mean something else
Or nothing at all.
Sometimes silence says more.

Instead

2005-11-15T01:25:00.000+08:00

Today, instead of working
I thought instead.

Instead of work
I thought of
All the meals I have yet to wrap my tastebuds around
The tastes
The textures
The smells.

Today, instead of dreaming
I thought instead.

Instead of dreams
I thought of
All the images I have yet to capture
The colours
The angles
The composition.

Today, instead of wanting
I thought instead.

Instead of wants
I thought of
All the books I have yet to read
All the movies I have yet to watch
All the songs I have yet to sing
All the stories I have yet to hear, and tell
All the conversations I have yet to have
All the coffee I have yet to savour
All the walks I have yet to take
All the landscapes I have yet to lay my eyes on
All the art I have yet to appreciate
All the hugs I have yet to give
All the smiles I have yet to share
All the people I have yet to love
All the breaths I have yet to take
All the things I have yet to be thankful for

Today, instead of now
I thought of
All the life I have yet to live.

I am smiling, now.

Conundrum, Conundrums

2005-11-12T18:35:00.000+08:00

How does one explain to the naïve that
All that glitters is not gold
That fair can be foul, and foul fair
And not every guy on a white horse
Wears a white suit?

How does one explain to the paranoid that
A gift by definition, is just that, a gift
No strings attached
That love, whatever the impetus, is still love
And that there are some people one can trust
No matter what?

How does one explain to the cynical that
Giving is better than receiving
That choosing to be used is the best way to
Avoid being used
And not being loved is no reason
Not to love?

How does one explain that
There are worse things in life to owe than money
That people are more than the sum of their functions
And denying a relationship exists does not in fact
Obliterate it?

If you know how, tell me.

Seeing Things

2005-11-07T17:13:00.000+08:00

You will never be
Who I want you to be
You aren't even who
You want yourself to be.
Are you a figment
Of my imagination,
The product of your fantasies,
Or the other way around?
If you exist only in our minds
Separately
We're both chasing
The shadow of a dream.

Service with a Smile

2005-11-07T09:59:00.000+08:00

I can't be
Who you want me to be, then
I will be
What you want me to be
In my own way.
Will that be all
For today?

Falling in Love

2005-11-01T12:00:00.000+08:00

Those who have lived life a little and loved a lot will know what I’m talking about :)

Age
Gender
Race
Logic
Love defies all
You can choose to love
But Cupid’s arrows fall
Where they please
(Cheesy but true)
Singaporeans put it best
Bak chew tak stamp hor?

It Takes Two Hands

2005-11-01T11:02:00.000+08:00

Like walking on egg shells
We tiptoed carefully
Gingerly
Avoiding the pitfalls
In tacit agreement
Warily
Playing give and take
Successfully
Traversing the landscape of
Life and love
For two hours
In three months
We concurred.
The sound of two hands clapping?
Gratifying
Satisfying.

Bitterness

2005-10-28T02:08:00.000+08:00

So bitter
The gall of it all
Eating away at one’s insides
Gnawing away at all that is
Good and kind and pure
Disfiguring all that is beautiful
Sickening

Sugar is but
Temporary solution
Artificial sweetener is
Cancer-causing
Or shit-inducing
Honey is
Good but
Ant-attracting
Nothing like love and light to fill
Every crevice,
Every nook
Every cranny of the heart
So that there is no space for
Bitterness

What's in a Name

2005-10-25T12:55:00.000+08:00

You flatter me,
You do.
You called me bitch,
Didn't you?
Well, I'm in good company,
I can tell.
Gurl, ain't you bitchin' too?
LOL, you're one as well!
So what's next,
Pray tell?
Bitch slap fest?
That would be like
So bitchin'!!
But it won't be necessary
To play that lame blame game.
I like the name,
The moniker,
The epithet;
You should too.
Embrace your inner bitch, gurl
Power reclaimed.

I'm a bitch, I'm a lover
I'm a child, I'm a mother
I'm a sinner, I'm a saint
I do not feel ashamed
I'm your hell, I'm your dream
I'm nothing in between
You know you wouldn't want it any other way
So take me as I am
- from "Bitch" by Meredith Brooks

Back to Square One?

2005-10-22T12:58:00.000+08:00

This was actually written two days ago, but only published today due to shortage of time.

One step forward
Two steps back
No standing still
Sadly, no turning back.
That way lies madness,
But a moment’s reprieve,
If you please.
Tired
From the constant struggle to
Close one’s eyes and
Turn one’s back.

Catharsis

2005-10-18T23:06:00.000+08:00

Christmas came early
This year
Love, joy, and peace
Finally flowed
Say with me
Amen then
Hallelujah*
To hell with it
Celebrate, won’t you

*in the words of the immortal Leonard Cohen

I did my best; it wasn't much.
I couldn't feel, so I tried to touch.
I've told the truth, I didn't come to fool you.
And even though it all went wrong,
I'll stand before the Lord of Song
With nothing on my tongue but Hallelujah!

Love, By Any Other Name II

2005-10-13T21:22:00.000+08:00

喜
v.

1. be happy; be delighted; be pleased
2. be fond of; like; have an inclination for

疼
v.

1. aches; hurts
2. love dearly; be fond of; dote on

Ambivalence
Talk about a mixed bag of emotions...

Love, By Any Other Name I

2005-10-13T21:21:00.000+08:00

soft spot
n.

1. A tender or sentimental feeling, fondness and affection for someone,
sometimes inexplicably so.
2. A weak or vulnerable point.
3. any membranous gap between the bones of the cranium in an infant or fetus

I need a soft spot like I need
A hole in my heart
A hole in my head.

Footsteps

2005-10-09T11:16:00.000+08:00

For those who have been contemplating the state of their hearts :)

Most people tread lightly
On the sands of our hearts,
Passing without a trace
To who knows where.
Then there are those who
Leave footsteps,
That linger
For years sometimes.
Do they weigh more
In our estimation?

Walking, Wounded

2005-10-09T00:56:00.000+08:00

To my care-givers – Angel, Sunshine, Leng Lui and Bobby T aka Peacock – who are ironically less than half my age. What would I do without you to put a smile on my face? With much love and appreciation...

Thank you, my dears,
For your indignation,
Your care and your concern.
The wound from that day,
'Twas but a superficial nick,
‘S healing fine.
A little outrage, perhaps,
At being so impudently maligned,
But on the desecrated hand,
No scar lies in waiting,
No wound festers
No sore, re-opened repeatedly,
Bleeds,
Quite unlike the other.
The latter remains
A little sensitive to the touch
But with time too will that heal,
No worries.
That it still hurts, sometimes,
'S living testimony to
Vulnerable heart,
Significant offender.
That I choose to stay put,
You may not understand now, and
Perhaps not ever.
Take comfort in knowing
That your presence soothes and salves
A heart that stays to grow
Stronger and wiser.

Afloat, Drifting

2005-10-08T01:58:00.000+08:00

Un-plugged
Un-hinged
Un-tethered

Disengaged
Disconnected
Disconcerted

Wind In My Hair

2005-10-02T21:32:00.000+08:00

Singapore: 26 degrees C

The door slammed shut.
A blast of wind,
Slapped in the face.

Reach for the window to shut it.
Pause and look.

Wind, swirling and
Tossing random leaves
Hurling passing birds into a tailspin
Downwards.
Sheets of rain relentlessly driven
Obliterate the view,
Buildings fading into oblivion.

Would that the wind could blow
These clouds of uncertainty
Away, to lift
The burden of waiting and wanting
Something, some other, perhaps,
That the rain would wash away
The bitter after-taste.

Face pelted by raindrops.
Reverie broken.

Close the window.
Glance in the mirror.

Hair askew, all cowlicked.
No matter.
HM’ll smile at the sight.
“Chicken,” HM’ll say.

Laugh at the thought.

22 floors in the air
A place called home
With HM.

Running on Empty

2005-10-02T08:01:00.000+08:00

This is an odd choice of analogy for someone who is a self-avowed non-driver… ah well, some metaphor is better than no metaphor…

The car spluttered and stalled
For the umpteenth time
In four months.

Get rid of this lemon,
Well-meaning friends said.
But to part, I wasn’t ready for.
A little tinkering perhaps,
A little TLC of course,
Nothing a visit to the mechanic
Wouldn’t solve
Couldn’t solve
I thought.

Yet there I was
Pushing the car uphill,
Again.
Back-breaking
Balls-busting
Soul-draining
Hernia-causing
Curse-inducing,
Thankless a task indeed

A faint trail of petrol in the dust
Told me all I needed to know.
Tapping the fuel gauge,
The needle dipped ominously to
Way below zero.

What have I been doing
Running on empty?

My bank account is fine, thank you.
It gets replenished every month.
Money can always be earned.
The same can’t be said for
Our bank account
Which takes two to fill.
Your withdrawals far exceed
My deposits.
Is it time
To close the account?

Ingratitude (formerly entitled Untitled 1)

2005-09-29T21:49:00.000+08:00

Like nestlings
They cackle and caw
Mouths agape
Bottomless maws

“What’s taking you so long?”
“Isn't that your job?”
“You chose this. Why complain?”

You forget -
No one chooses to be taken for granted.

The Existential Crisis of an ATM

2005-09-24T17:05:00.000+08:00

For those of you who asked when this would be written, the moment to do so had not yet arrived. Today it did.

Busy corner
Long queue
One after another
People came and went.

Familiar footsteps
Familiar face
Déjà vu

For a moment there
So many things to say
How was your day?
How was your week?
How has your life been?
Would you like
Some care and concern with that?
Do you still cry yourself to sleep?
Wanna go for coffee?
So many words
Choked up, in a lump

Whirr, click, cha-ching
Interrupted by
Sighs of impatience

Do you want a receipt?
Yes/No
The moment was over.

I dispense, therefore I am.

Thank You For Nothing

2005-09-23T12:51:00.000+08:00

"Thank you"
What any two people
Strangers notwithstanding
Would say, if only to be polite
What more two people
Who have nothing left to say to each other
Face to face.

"Thank you"
I had no idea it was a loaded weapon
That would backfire.
For nothing
I got shot instead.

To A Sanctimonius So-and-So

2005-09-23T02:20:00.000+08:00

My dear readers, you may need a dictionary to read this one, but, fear not, it will greatly improve your vocabulary lol.

We don’t fit into those nice neat boxes
You have prepared for us, labeled.
The world is in shades of grey
Not black and white
No matter how much you pray.

Those who lie may not be liars.
Those who mock may not be cruel.
Those who question may not be faithless.
Those who criticize may not be uncaring.
Those who stray may not be unfaithful.
That which you do not understand
May just be different, not wrong.
Ignorance may not be bliss.
So before you throw the next stone
Think twice.

For I will not be judged by
The narrow-minded
The intolerant
The easily offended
The insular
The small of mind
The bigoted
The parochial
The reactionary
The prudish
The holier-than-thou
The devoutly hypocritical
The self-righteous
The unthinking.

Most of all, I will not be judged by you.
I pray you don't grow up to be a shrew.

"Tolerance implies no lack of commitment to one's own beliefs. Rather it condemns the oppression or persecution of others." -- John F. Kennedy

Swimming Lessons

2005-09-20T13:00:00.000+08:00

I spent 37 years learning how to swim. You could say I’m an expert at swimming lessons.

Lesson #1
You can’t learn to swim without getting wet.

Lesson #2
Funny thing, water
The more you fear it
The more you fight it.
The more you fight it,
The more you sink.
Trust, just trust.

Silence

2005-09-20T10:30:00.000+08:00

When chances breathe between the silence - Elton John

In the space you need
I can only hear the silence,
and in the silence,
the deafening roar of absence.

The sound of time ticking away
Reverberates in my mind
Loud and clear.

A Blast from the Past

2005-09-18T03:58:00.000+08:00

Your trip to nowhere brought these scenes back, in a flash….

East Coast Park, blue skies, aged 18:
Walkman, music to the ears
Bicycle wheels whizzing to the sound of
Michael Franks, Stephen Bishop
Down past Big Splash
Up to Bedok Jetty
Salt in the air, salt in the lungs
Salt in the eyes
Waves crashing on the breakwater

Changi Airport, rainy day, aged 19:
Planes taking off
Runway blues
Hands fumbling to dial
Heart in mouth
One hour later
Disengaged
Flight of fantasy

Singapore, two a.m., aged 20:
Two friends, one car
Competition and camaraderie
Convertible with top down
Wind through the hair
Everything But The Girl
playing on loop
ECP to PIE
PIE to TPE
TPE to SLE
SLE to KJE
KJE to BKE
BKE to PIE
PIE to AYE
AYE to ECP
Prata and kopi peng
Ten cigarettes later
Home alone

Withdrawal Symptoms

2005-09-16T12:40:00.000+08:00

Whatever or whoever your poison, this one's for you. God bless us all :)

Restless
Moody
Anxious
Fingers twitch
Mind wanders
Something aches.

Will weakens
Hand reaches out.
Hesitation,
Opportunity lost
For better or worse.

Look longingly
Look surreptitiously
Breathe in, take in
Second-hand.

Breath gets shallow
Heartbeat quickens
Instant head rush
Temporary relief

Two hours later
Restless
Moody
Anxious
Fingers twitch
Mind wanders
Ache returns

Symptoms repeat themselves.

Vending Machine Angst

2005-09-14T13:57:00.000+08:00

Deserted corridor.
Fluorescent light on the blink.
Vending machine sits alone.

Footsteps down the corridor
Coins fall
Buttons pushed

Coffee
With milk
Tea
Black
Coffee
Without milk
With sugar

All quiet again.

They come,
Needy.
They go,
Satiated.

Vending machine sits, alone.

Next installment: The Existential Crisis of an ATM

Hurricane Watch

2005-09-14T13:54:00.000+08:00

A friend of mine once said, in a play he wrote, “The problem with Singapore is that there are no natural disasters.” He was talking about Singaporeans being complacent and whiny. There's nothing like a regular dose of Mother Earth's fury to correct any human arrogance and instill humility. Character-building, that's what we call this in school. I'm not sure how long human memory retains such lessons learnt. All I know is that the absence of such phenomena breeds a morbid obsession with disasters of all sorts, natural or otherwise. 9-11, Bali bombing, Boxing Day tsunami, London bombings, Hurricane Katrina - you name it, we watched it, on CNN, BBC, CNBC, Channelnewsasia.

I was no exception. One of my minor fantasies in life was to experience a hurricane, not an earthquake, because that would be completely unexpected and sudden. A hurricane - I could anticipate and savour the impending doom. I could relish the gradual build-up of power. I imagined myself going down to the beach, in the early days of the hurricane watch, to observe the storm surge, to gaze in awe at the unnaturally huge waves crashing onto and over the breakwaters, to be buffeted by the force of the swirling winds. I imagined myself sitting it out as the hurricane beared down, barricaded in my home, refusing to evacuate, shaking my puny fist and daring Mother Nature to do her worst. Man against Nature. It would have been an exhilarating experience - I had no doubt of that.

Well, what do you know? I've gone off hurricanes. No need to ask why; 'nuff said. What I am left with is the realization that hurricanes come and go as they please. They are acts of nature, oblivious to the world, impervious to human plea. They chart their own path, their will be done. You rave, you rant, you wait to be acknowledged, but you are insignificant against the implacable force of Nature.

Of Castle Walls

2005-09-11T01:46:00.000+08:00

The splendour falls on castle walls.
- Alfred, Lord Tennyson

I.

Oh princess
You have built for yourself
Ring upon ring
Of castle wall
To keep out that
Ancient loathsome dragon.

Green scales
Huge teeth
Fire breathing
Rapier-like talons.

Your heart beats faster
Confusion reigns
Breathless
You think it’s fear.

Who’s been filling your head with such nonsense?

For every little girl knows
Deep down inside
That dragons are fiercely loyal
With hearts of gold.

Every little girl knows that
The way to avoid the dragon’s scorching breath
Is to be held close, safe within the curve of its tail.

II.

Knights in shining armour
You welcome with open arms
To keep the dragon at bay, you say.

Anything to keep your mind off that damn dragon?

For to save a damsel in distress
Many men will flock to your doorstep.
Your hand in marriage.
The honour and the glory
A kingdom, for to gain.

To them, you listen
Mind filling with their prattle,
Their hairy chests inflated,
Of battles lost and won
Of gallantry and balladry.

Your heart swells with love
Or so you think.
You simper, you preen.

Without the castle walls,
The dragon awaits
Patiently.

III.

Of castle walls
What price, your freedom?

Mirror, Mirror, On The Wall

2005-09-09T00:06:00.000+08:00

What do you see when you look in your mirror?
Isn’t it odd how no one else can ever see what we ourselves see?

Do you like what you see?
Do you see what you like
Or what you hate?

Do you see your future
Your present
Or your past?

Do you see your desires
Your hopes, your wishes
Your failures or
Successes?

Does it scare you to think that
No one else sees the loneliness
The longing and the fears?
Does it hurt you to think that
No one else sees the beauty inside?

Do you see the hard line of your lips
‘Neath the softness of your brow?
Do you see the coldness of your eyes
Masked by the warmth of your tears?
Do you look beyond the façade
Of pretty face
Nameless grace?
Could it be the truth
that you fear?

Take a good hard look.
Beware of mirrors that lie.
Look away sometimes, if you must
But don’t be afraid to look anyway
As long as there’s someone there who cares
Beside you
Looking at you,
Looking at yourself.

Cats - An Acquired Taste

2005-09-08T13:52:00.000+08:00

Dedicated to Babyface and Damienne

By definition
Catty
Aloof
Temperamental

They ignore you when you call
Slink around your legs
When you least expect it
Rub up against you when it suits them
Take a bite out of your hand when it doesn’t.
Purr and roll over
Tease you with a flick of a tail
Slink away in disgust
To leave you grovelling in the dust.

For unconditional love doled out by the dollop
Get a dog or a teddy-bear.

A sucker for cats?
Must be a masochist
Like me.

C&C: Coffee and Conversation

2005-09-07T23:16:00.000+08:00

My namesake - this one's for you

Coffee Bean it is,
once again.
I’m not complaining.

High on caffeine
And the aroma of something.
Was it the coffee
Or something else?

Two focused
One restless
Peace and quiet
Some work done.

A hiatus
Earnest conversation
Heated disagreement
Unexpected laughter.

In the end
Three people
Two connecting
One network failure.

No matter –
The lighting was perfect.
The coffee hit the spot.
Thank you for our conversation.

Beauty is in the Eyes of the Beholder

2005-09-04T11:08:00.000+08:00

Dedicated to those who fill my life with beauty everyday

“Not too big”
“Not too small”
“Not too short”
“Not too tall”
“Must have hair”
“Not at all”

Appearance is everything
To the young.
Even so, subtle, they are not.
How does one even explain

Why
A flash of fire in the eyes
A thoughtful tilt of the head
A steady gaze
A peek of the collarbone
A knitting of the brow
An unexpected grin
The soft crook of a neck
The gracious curve of an elbow
The way hands look as they work
The way a watch sits on a wrist
Can make one catch one’s breath?

Only with age do we learn that
Beauty is anything
But skin deep.

Beauty is talent,
Waiting to be unleashed
Waiting to be nurtured.

Beauty is spirit uncowed,
Independence of mind
Heartfelt passion.

Beauty is intelligence unbridled,
Of thought-fulness
Of ideas brewing, consolidating.

Beauty is the courage
To throw caution to the wind
To tame those demons.

Beauty is the willingness to laugh
At oneself
At the world with its idiosyncracies.

Beauty is vulnerability.
Not neediness
But moments of weakness,
Of need revealed
Despite carefully erected walls,
The posturing.

Beauty is, in the eyes of this beholder,
Life wrought large.

Emergency Relief

2005-09-02T02:30:00.000+08:00

Thank god for Teachers’ Day.
More band-aid moments to heal a hurt.

You’re not only a teacher
you’re a good friend to us all.
Thank you, my friends.

Your motivation and drive are the things that motivate me
to study and achieve.
I will remember to be
a good role model always.

When we don’t do our work
you don’t scold us.
You make us feel guilty
without making us hate English.
Emotional blackmail,
the teacher's ultimate weapon

Although you scolded me many times,
I don’t hold any anger against you.
I hope you will also not hold any anger against me.
Never would I do that.
Stay angry? I can't.
A softie, I am, inside.

Thank you for all your help and
the extra lessons you gave us
at Holland Village.
Oh it was really an excuse to
eat kfc
drink coffee
hang out with you guys.

And of these all, my favourite
Which moved me beyond tears.

Without you
I would still be lost in this world.
Ditto.
You give meaning to my life.
You all do.

With love, your teacher

Band-Aid, Thank You

2005-09-02T01:45:00.000+08:00

The week started with many broken pieces,
Shattered,
Scattered.
Teachers are human too, you said.
With those four words, you made me feel just that, human again.
You laugh un-selfconsciously, even when it’s just the two of us.
You smack me lightly, when I tease you.
Acceptance and affirmation.
Trust and tenderness.
Band-aid moment.

Friend, I thank you.

The heart is neither a light bulb nor a tap.

2005-08-29T03:05:00.000+08:00

It cannot be turned on or off at will, at a flick of a switch.
What makes you think its outpouring can be controlled,
a little more, please, or a little less?
Living muscle pure and simple,
it sometimes grows unexpectedly to fit one more soul in;
would it be that reversing the process was as simple.
Open-chest surgery is what comes to mind,
with scars the length of one's torso.
There are those whose hearts are attached to movement sensors,
emitting warmth and light only when someone is near.
How lucky they are to be able to conserve energy.
For those of us less blessed, the occasional breakdown will occur,
a fissure that grows into a chasm that morphs into a canyon.
Band-aids help (though not for long)
And for a friend, one with an elephant will have to do.